Alright

my friend said before it happened the RPM went crazy and then just died.
I did test the crankshaft position sensor, but for 40 bucks i will buy it to replace and test out, if none then I will return it. I just have this gut feeling it is not the ecu because the gauges work and everything seems to work other than spark.

the coil packs (the bar with the 3 coil packs and sparkplug 'sockets') I bought a new one to check, and like the old one, both don't create sparks.

MAP sensor is good, and plus it affects fuel, not spark

so I have to check the wires up to the coil packs, and I will have to check the ASD relay, but I had one other relay identical to it, swapped them, and still nothing.

if nothing goes, then we are ordering a new ecu