That's a horrid wreck and I feel sorry for your loss. I am just glad your Montero was able to sacrifice itself to keep you and your fiance alive.
I remember a few months ago a forum member posted about being in a head on with a F350 and surviving. Better built vehicles don't just perform better, they protect better as well.

Richard E
1989 Montero - Stock-ish
1989 V6 Auto Raider - 5.3 Vortech Swap.
1987 Mitsubishi Starion 2.6t, soon to be 3.5
1983 Honda XL600R