Use the search function - towing with Monteros has been covered many times, including everything from frame mounted hitches to the 4-bolt mounted style that you mentioned (which is what I use).

95 Montero SR
3.8 MIVEC, Advance headers, 2 1/2" exhaust, Magnaflow muffler, OME shocks & rear springs, 2" body lift, 3" tank lift, 4.90s, TRE front locker, factory rear locker, Roger Brown Rock Sliderz, 315/75r16 (35") tires, Sport big brakes