Thanks eddy... I found a alligator clip and was able to ground the connector. I did this while the truck was running and the idle dropped from about 1800rpms down to 1000rpms. It held steady until I gave it it a little gas, then it jumped back up to 1800 or so. I turn the truck off disconnected the ground wire and started it again. I was back at 1800rpms, so i went to ground the connector again and when I hooked up the alligator clip the rpms stayed at 1800rpms instead of dropping down to 1000 again... does this tell you guys anything? thanks!

1989 Dodge Raider - V6 - Manual - 4x4 - AC - 31" Tires