Can you hear the relay clicking on/off when they turn on "at its own discretion"?

If not then the relay may be energizing properly and the break, loose wire, bad ground, etc. may be located between the lamp(s) and the relay.

On the other hand, I know jack about the factory fog lights...and most things in life really.

Good luck,
David

1997 Montero SR

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