Took my 4Runner in to the dealership for the steering relay rod recall. Got it back washed and waxed (cool) with a nice Christmas list of more stuff to fix:

Shifter bushing worn out and old
Clutch worn out
Power steering pump leaking
Valve cover gaskets leaking
Brake fluid flush
Power steering flush
Fuel induction/injector cleaning service
Steering stop caps worn
Rear differential leaking at speed sensor
Upper and lower ball joints worn out

I'm wondering:
What on the list is the most important to get done right away? (Ball joints?) (I noticed top-to-bottom play in the driver's side front wheel when I jacked it up)
What can I do myself easily?

Any suggestions from the wise members of this forum?

Ted '94 4Runner 3VZ-E 163,000mi.