Did a little searching:
Does the opening page say "xxx is a family-oriented 4x4 club..." and "Visitors are always welcome. Come and share the fun!"

If so, it seems contradictory to what you described above and you will be better off with a different club.
If not, ignore my comment as it doesn't apply (except for the "you will be better off with a different club" part).

hupptoy

99 4Runner SR5 3.4 Auto 4x4, 32" LTX A/T, 154K
93 Toy x-cab 22RE 5-spd 4x4, 31" LTX A/T, 150K