thanks for all the feed back!

the oil is clean, no grey goo. is starts fine, if you didn't see the smoke you'de never know. its definetly coolant though! when the engine was cool and i removed the ODD looking plug and turned it over, noting pumps out of the plug hole. but, if i turn it over when she's hot i get coolant steam coming out of the hole. i'm hoping that its the intake manifold leaking just over that cylinder and not the head gasket. but until i do a comp test i won't know. i tell ya its weird! not the typical symptoms of head gasket problems. i fear a cracked head!