I disconnected the the big connector under the passenger seat. Still blows a fuse but I could hear a relay clicking under the fuse panel. I pulled the plastic cowl beside the clutch pedal and found the noise coming from:
round relay m3 #90987-01003 12v 22A 3F22. I'll take this over to my mechanic's and ask him to check it for me. I need to pick up another hand full of fuses, too.
Regarding the dash lights. None. the map lights work but nothing else.
I did have a problem with the starter wiring last year but all I see down there are the wires that go to the starter and the reverse light switch.