Travis.
Had you made this decision not a month ago, you would have been buying my '93, ARB'd, 5.13'd Dana 44. As it stands, I've still got the axle shafts from it...
Crap. Timing sucks.
Anyhoo - There is always the option of a wider Dana 44 front like mine to match a 14 or 60 rear. It'd be just as cheap as a regular old narrower 44, but you'd have to spring for the $$$ to set it up.
Further, I would highly suggest going the non-selectable route with your rear. On rigs like ours with longer wheelbases, it's a non-issue. I've never once regretted having the Detroit back there and I even think a Lockright would be fine for your - and my - type of gentler, finesse-istic driving style.
With that said, 14 bolts are cheap and available easily if you feel you want to that route - colorado4x4.org is now your best friend. You could even go the 10.5 Eaton route:
http://www.colorado4x4.org/vbb/showthread.php?t=64261In fact, you now have an option for both axles:
http://www.colorado4x4.org/vbb/showthread.php?t=64072That's a good deal, aside from the gearing. It'd give you a width like mine (that's my setup, actually, aside from the fact that I'm running an ARB up front...).
You
could go the "let's narrow down a 14 or 60 rear" route, but I think it's going to be just as $$$ either way.
Honestly? How many times have you blown up the rear on your rig? Once? Running the trails you do, with the way you drive? I think you're careful enough to avoid this in the future, IMHO. Unless you really want to take the Rodeo up to the next level, of course, or are really leaning towards 37's and more skinny pedal in your future...
- mike