first off update your signature so that we all know what model and make you have. that will help.

second that is some crap luck that they ran into you. I knwo how much work is involved with those. I did one myself. the shifter should be extended. at least on mine I had to extend it just to get it to work. I think that will solve some problem. as for the bolts all but the catch bolts should be easy for you to find. I could not track down those for the life of me. the metric thread is what will give you problems

Sounds like it pushed you body off center as well. If I were you I would get the money from insurance and buy another kit and then take what you need out of it. you can probably resell the pucks for about any vehicle. good luck