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Re: I'm alone again. [Re: TommyM] #772435 12/16/06 03:54 PM

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Greenville, SC

87Montero

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pull the <img src="/forums/images/graemlins/baby.gif" alt="" /> out of your mouth and be a man!

I meant the Binky.. drunk comment, sorry. I was referring to her, not the daughters. It just makes me angry to see a woman just go and throw a guy's emotions around like that..

Give it another shot by all means, but you might still have to accept that and move on... <img src="/forums/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />

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Re: I'm alone again. [Re: 87Montero] #772436 12/16/06 05:02 PM

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Hamburg MI

cmonty72

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I'm glad to see we got off the "that time of the month" topic. I understand you enlisted men have to get it when you can. Just keep your mouth north of the equator. <img src="/forums/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> You only want your bloodwings if your Airborne. <img src="/forums/images/graemlins/lol.gif" alt="" />

I'm glad to hear that a spark is igniting again. I bet you two are back together before this thread hits 8 pages. <img src="/forums/images/graemlins/patriot.gif" alt="" />

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Re: I'm alone again. [Re: cmonty72] #772437 12/16/06 05:24 PM

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Pebble Beach, CA

Oyaji_Jon

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I understand you enlisted men have to get it when you can.

Who said anything about being enlisted? <img src="/forums/images/graemlins/ignore.gif" alt="" /> Okay, well I USED to be, but Officers are men, too! <img src="/forums/images/graemlins/lol.gif" alt="" />o

My point was that (after 10 years of marriage in my case) you have to take it when you can get it. Don't be choosy about time because, later, it never happens as much as you want it to. Anyway, sheesh, I guess I AM a Dirty Old Man like my name suggests. <img src="/forums/images/graemlins/notooth.gif" alt="" />

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Re: I'm alone again. [Re: cmonty72] #772438 12/16/06 06:05 PM

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Portland OR

Kevin C

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Take a breath sit back a bit....

You two spent a lot of time together and there appears to be a couple of kids involved.

Most dysfunctional relationships are based on both people being dysfunctional, its why you hooked up. IMHO all relationships are dysfunctional to some level <img src="/forums/images/graemlins/lol.gif" alt="" />

Its possible for the both of you to learn and be better at relationships. Its not easy but it can be done, the payback is obvious.

Talk about doing some couples counseling.. even if you two are split up.

Possible outcomes include one person growing away from the more dysfunctional person as they discover and deal with their own issues. A good outcome is you learn enough about each other and yourself to remain together and happy.

Even if you cant salvage this one what you learn will help you in your next one.

Most issues come back to your own family and backround and what you bring into your relationship with your wife (same for her). A good counseler can challenge you and help you understand yourself and how you relate to others.

That understanding leads to making better decisions that leads to being happy.

Kevin

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Re: I'm alone again. [Re: Kevin C] #772439 12/16/06 09:31 PM

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I'm not sure what to truly think at this moment. I did some soul searching this morning. I did some praying, I did find a little peace. I still come home and I feel guilty and I feel sad. I'm just trying to seperate her from my heart. I'm trying not to care.

That sounded cruel, didn't it? I', taking things as they go. Forcing myself to enjoy my moments and not think about the sad. I have plan my future and at this point it's up to her if she wants to be in it. If she wants to ***** me that's great, if she doesn't she doesn't. I'm not going to allow anymore sorrow in.

One last thought, if any of you are of the Christian faith, please put in a couple of good words for me. I think he's listening and the sorrow is getting easier to cope with, but I could use some help. Because unfortunately, I am still only human. LOL

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Re: I'm alone again. #772440 12/16/06 11:07 PM

Joined: Mar 2006

Posts: 227

Calgary, AB, Canada

jerzboy

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Getting separated and then divorced is the best thing that ever happened to me. My wife cheated on me no less, and i couldn't be happier to not be married anymore.

Keep your head up, you'll be fine <img src="/forums/images/graemlins/cheers.gif" alt="" />

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Re: I'm alone again. [Re: kewlynx] #772441 12/17/06 05:36 AM

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On the other Q.

American Legion in Moose Ck. Stay on the Old Rich out the gate for about a mile (?) Look for the sign for the Legion and the Fire Dept & transfer site. It's in the old elementary school behind the station.

Dinner Sat. around 5 or 6; $5. Chinese gift exchange. Number over there is 490-6830, after 2 pm if ya want to go and have questions.

Sorry I didn't make it over to the legion. We went tanning and christmas shopping and got home about 730PM. I'd still like to hang out sometime. Just let me know.

Re: I'm alone again. #772442 12/17/06 01:23 PM

Joined: Oct 2002

Posts: 15,887

Fairbanks, Alaska

kewlynx

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Sure; nice evening there tonight. You and the missus might talk about some marriage counselling tho'; seriously. Ya can't afford to build that truck if you wind up in the barracks and paying alimony. <img src="/forums/images/graemlins/shiner.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/forums/images/graemlins/shame.gif" alt="" />

On my side of the gate:

TRUST ME-- my eff'n power bill for this past months was just shy of $200. Heating oil is $2.25 with a $65 delivery fee from most places right now; so do that math on a 3 or 500 gallon tank. This will play into a deposit, depending on the living arrangements.
Thank the taxpayers for your current living situation as a 'renter' on base. With all those Stryker guys coming back right now, you'll be playin' hell to find a place to live off base if that was your option. BUT-- I digress.

TALK to her. Both of you deserve it. Consider counselling.

I'll PM ya after the New Year's. My shift partner lost his wife this summer, so it's his first holiday without her, so he's going to visit family over the next couple weeks. I'll be no-lifin' until then.

If'n ya got a digi, we can take your rig to the hobby shop and snap some pix for these guys. I'll get the pizza.

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Re: I'm alone again. [Re: kewlynx] #772443 12/17/06 06:56 PM

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Hope everything works out for your friend. I have a nice camera so anytime you wanna hang out, just let me know. I understand the heating thing. That is A LOT of money. I don't understand how you all survive up here.

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