Do everything you can, you owe it to them. If the problems are truly yours, get counsiling for yourself NOW. Let her know you care enough to get counsiling, do not keep her in the dark. Self improvement is both the most rewarding and difficult accomplishments one can have.

After getting some counsiling for your problems, ask her to go to marriage counsiling, NOT DIVORCE COUNSILING. Even consider Christian based counsiling.

As far as the Christian angle? You already know the answer to that, divorce is wrong, and those kids will be scared. You owe to those 3 angels to fix your problems. If she is willing to sleep with you, there is hope unless she has no morals, and I dont believe that. Sex wont fix your problems, but it can bring you together, just dont let it fool you into thinking things are ok.

Then again what do I know, my wife moved out due to her problems and I only became a Christian a few weeks ago

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