You know, most of us don't really wanna know these personal details. In future, please refrain from adding them - this is an offtopic forum, but we really don't need to get THAT offtopic, 'kay?

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I was waiting for the play-by-play. <img src="/forums/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Do everything you can, you owe it to them. If the problems are truly yours, get counsiling for yourself NOW. Let her know you care enough to get counsiling, do not keep her in the dark. Self improvement is both the most rewarding and difficult accomplishments one can have.

After getting some counsiling for your problems, ask her to go to marriage counsiling, NOT DIVORCE COUNSILING. Even consider Christian based counsiling.

As far as the Christian angle? You already know the answer to that, divorce is wrong, and those kids will be scared. You owe to those 3 angels to fix your problems. If she is willing to sleep with you, there is hope unless she has no morals, and I dont believe that. Sex wont fix your problems, but it can bring you together, just dont let it fool you into thinking things are ok.

Then again what do I know, my wife moved out due to her problems and I only became a Christian a few weeks ago

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HEY! Congrats Lloyd!! <img src="/forums/images/graemlins/kewl.gif" alt="" />

Lloyd,

Big changes...

Hope yer OK. seperation is never easy, and always painful...

wha, hmm, wow!

Welcome brother Lloyd!

Ya know I read about all these issues people go through on this and other boards and I just wish for everyone the same good fortune I've found through my own troubles.

In Christ and his power over sin and promise of life (not just in the next life but right now) there really is an answer and an absolute. I wouldn't say it if I haven't seen it for myself and others I know that claim it.



I wish you both well and better days ahead.

Michael,

I hope everything works out well between you and your wife. I've been married for over 6 years now and have 2 kids and I can't even imagine going about without them been part of my daily life, I wish you the best man!



Lloyd, I am so sorry to hear about your wife <img src="/forums/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> You and your family are really cool people and I've enjoyed hanging out with you all every single trip. I really hope you guys can overcome any obstacles that might be on your way!
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Have faith the lord will give you the strength you need in times of trouble. Don't give up and continue to follow your heart!

i'm more offended by reading about religion than sex <img src="/forums/images/graemlins/ignore.gif" alt="" />

what did god do for me when i got separated from my cheating whore? nothing. what is he doing for you now? nothing.

my friends came to my rescue when religion, family, and god didn't.

find strength in something real. find strength in your friends, and in turn find that strength in yourself. "god is an imaginary friend for grownups"

and whoever wants to flame me after this, go ahead. you've spoken your peace (from the relgious right) and i have too.

I love where our talk forum is going these days. What else can we throw into this thread?

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