your questions just keep on getting more specific. I am not sure how many people have done this but I think that you will find some trial and error in it as well. Im sure sure if we all know what dealers of parts you have locally as well or what you ahve access to.

2002 Honda Passport. 3 inch Indy4x lift with 912 OME's. 265 75 BFG m/t's with a 3 inch body lift, safari rack, tube sliders, tube rear bumper, on-board air