Bilstein or Edelbrock would be MUCH better choices than any of the ones you mentioned (ProComp MX-6 might not be bad, but I haven't tried those. The es3000/9000, etc. suck). Monroe Reflex also work pretty well and are fairly inexpensive.

The cranked t-bars will tend to worsen your ride overall though because of the lost down-travel. That's where ball joint spacers come in. They give you the same lift w/o sacrificing travel.

'97 4Runner, '06 F350, '86 4Runner, '05 WR450
http://home.4x4wire.com/erik