5VZ-FE engine
I've also used standard Castrol 5w30 changed at roughly 5k intervals. Tried the high mileage green jug variety for a few changes and found all the leaks in my valve covers. Back on the white jug now with new seals.

Manual Transmission
Mobil 1 75/90 (looking at Royal Purple Synchromesh, more readily available here than Redline)

Transfer
Mobil 1 75/90

Differential
Royal Purple 75w90

Chassis
Mobil1 syn on the ujoints and steering (have greasable endlinks on the SA stuff), "Green" marine grease in the hubs

Brakes
DOT3

Clutch line
DOT3 I guess...never added any or changed it

Steering
Dextron type ATF