You can put one of those aluminum wheel spacers with the studs and everything from Marlincrawler.com. Not sure if you can buy just 1.

About 1/4 the way down you will see the Toyota wheel spacers.
http://www.marlincrawler.com/htm/axles.htm

Or, cut out the stock lugs from the tire holder and put longer bolts and stack washers or spacers.

I just want to tell you both good luck, and we're all counting on you.