I am sorry to hear that she does not want to ride in a Sportage that is more stable and handles better than stock. The sportage has a lot of body lean when stock, with the lift (the setup you have) it stiffens the ride and the body lean is all but gone. Mine is lifted 4 inches and has 31" tall tires on it and both of my boys learned to drive in this vehicle and I had no worries of them rolling over usless they got realy stupid, and I bet they could have rolled it over easier with the stock springs. Just rember when you go higher also go wider and you stay stable (to a point).

Just my 2 cents, Dennis