baby is doing fine and is home and happy but my wife is not doing so well she is in need of surgery and because of her other health problems she might be on a colostomy bag for the rest of her life. she is stressed and hurting alot i am stressed and wish i could make it all better for her. breaks my heart to see her like this and even worse when she crys. but no matter what i love them both with all my heart. I am staying up to keep care of the baby tonight since she likes to be awake alot over night so she can sleep she needs it so keep us in your prayers and thoughts Lefty..