yea the window that wa opened was me getting a second job. well for now anyway. we were both very paniky until her parents came over and talked to her this morning. then i remained in a panic and got home made several calls home to arrange for housing and such in case we do have to leave.When the wife heard what i was doing she managed to get me to calm down and explain that it isn't as dire as we both thought.Between her getting paid through august,unemployment for up to a year, anda few other odds and ends we will be ok for awhile.plus the In-Laws are going to help us as needed if needed.her brother and sister in -law are going to help her with her applications and such. and she will also check into getting a license to teach in VA just in case. Now that the stress has been greatly lifted I am not as worried even though moving back home wasn't a bad idea lol.

She sent some applications to schools at the shore which will be kinda better. anytime i can go saltwater fishing in less than a few minutes is good to me.she did state that we would move to the shore if she got any of those jobs.