thank you jim. cause i swapped the relay last night and she is driving to get me since my jeep is down. she has drove it about 5 miles now and its right back to the same old crap again. so ill check it when she gets here. so where do i get the pins to replace them at? im not an electrical kind of guy usually when something electrical goes wrong they get out of my driveway real fast but this is her car and she loves it to much to just get rid of it and she doesnt want a payment.and i dont blame her cause i really dont want to pay one right now either. do you think the ecm could be bad too? i have done so much to this thing i feel like im reaching in the dark hoping i dont get bit. but im pulling what little hair i have out.

and on a different subject my 93 grand cherokee limited is having tranny problems it goes fine unless i have to get on it for any reason then it wants fo fall out of gear everytime i stop and i have to rev it up to get it back in gear and then it only wants to stay in 1st or 2st gear. and even if i get it driving fine when it gets hot from driving it it will only go up to 2nd gear if i stop or slow way down unless i run it up to 4 or 5 grand then it will shift most of the time sometimes it wont even after all that. would it be worth rebuilding? or any other ideas? or know of a place i can get a different tranny reasonably priced?

thanks for the help

Marty