Ouch..Sorry man..I almost made the same mistake a few weeks back. I decided not to force it and dropped it back down and finally got the TC fully engaged after spinning and pushing for about 15 minutes.

99 Gen 2.5, fixing blown head gasket
89 SWB- 33's, ARB Front locker, SR rear locker/axle, SR F brakes, winch, WST Offroad Armor all Around, 2.85 Aussie T-case Gears (SOLD)
Sold: (2) 95 SR's, 86 SWB, 90LWB, 91 LWB
-Can Change a timing belt in my sleep..