They sell the metal cup style grabbers at Harbor Freight. Or they sell them at the dealer.

I tried the screwdriver through the oil filter, on my VERY first oil change on a Honda CRX. WORST decision I EVER made. Screwdriver ripped right through it, and left me with a face full of oil and half of a mangled oil filter still stuck to the block. I'll NEVER do that again.

I change oil and fuel filters on all kinds of equipment at work, about 2 or 3 times a week. Ive NEVER had one that wouldn't come off using my rubber strap wrench, metal band type, or the 3 jaw type.