They make a tool specifically for taking these apart . Using a fine pick works for me though.

ie:

http://shop.willyselectronics.com/browse.cfm/ht-2023-pin-insertion-molex-/4,8872.html


85' 4x4 e-cab flatbed 22r carb ((SOLD))
86' 4runner, 22re , "60 buck truck"
95' 4runner, 22re,5sd, last of the good ones
02' Tacoma prerunner, 2.7L, 5spd., 4x4